Do Not Interact (DNI)

• MAPs. It’s none of my business what you’re into, but what you’re into is illegal and gross. For both of our sakes, just leave me alone.
• Homophobes and/or transphobes. This includes exclusionists who claim to be supporters (those who exclude asexuals, bisexuals, etc., but still claim to be allies). I’m transgender, panromantic, and asexual. Once again, for both of our sakes, leave me alone.
• Proshippers. When I say this, I mean people who support abusive, incestual, pedophilic, and otherwise problematic ships (looking at you, Kaeluc shippers!)
• Gacha Heaters. Please, stop.
• Anyone on my friends’ DNI lists. Axo, Azmo, etc., you know who you are and why you’re on there.

Other Boundaries

• I’m taken—flirting as a joke only, and only between close friends.
• Please don’t give me graphic descriptions or images of gore, it makes me feel faint.
  • I’m fine with blood! I’m talking more along the lines of body horror or similar. Blood alone won’t affect me most of the time.
• Please warn me before discussing anything involving suicide or self-harm in length, I struggled in the past and my own suicidal thoughts could resurface if I’m not prepared for the conversation.
• NSFW (art, text, jokes, etc.) is fine and all, and I’ll probably laugh along, but don’t expect a ton of enthusiasm—again, I’m asexual.
• Please don’t come into my DMs to vent without asking first. Yes, even friends! I’m not always in the headspace to listen without being negatively affected emotionally. Note that this only applies to DMs and not to servers we share.
• Please ask me about my likes and dislikes! I love talking about my likes, and I have no problem explaining why I dislike something, even if you disagree with me.
• And most importantly, if you don’t know, ask! Please ask. I will gladly tell you where my boundaries are in regards to a subject, assuming I have any hard boundaries set.